The Nothing Box
Do you know why we women remember dozen of things when we actually are asked about one topic? And do you know about the ‘Nothing Box’ in a man’s brain?
A man’s brain is like a series of boxes, each for a specific topic. These boxes never touch each other. When you ask a man about a topic, that box is opened and information is retreived and closed when no linger needed. All the while, the focus is on that specific subject that was in the box. They also have one box called the ‘Nothing box’.
On the other hand, the brain of a woman, is like a ball of wire. Everything is connected in a crazy, beautiful tangle that means every topic is intrinsically connected to everything else. And that’s why when husband-wife has a fight, the wife opens up a pandora box, remebering everything.
When man is sitting quitely and you ask them what you thinking, they say – Nothing(since there is a nothing box). For a lady , in her brain there is no box called nothing. So for her its very abnormal to hear nothing and that’s when she gets irritated, thinking that the guy is hiding something from her. I personally can vouch for the striking accuracy of this analogy.
I read this from the book “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus by John Gray”.
Very interesting book. Think book can help in buildi g a strong relationship. You will understand male or female is behaving a certain way.